21 blissful things to do on a day off alone
If you’re a busy working mum that finds herself with a day off, you need to make the most of it with a blissful list of things to do on a day off alone. Perhaps you’ve unexpected day to yourself, or maybe you purposely booked this day off and your child is at nursery. Either way, today is all about you.
Being a mum is exhausting. You’re constantly juggling hundreds of different tasks and you never seem to have a moment to yourself. That’s why it’s important to take a day off every now and then to recharge your batteries.
Here are some things you can do on your day off to relax and rejuvenate, if you have a day off from work and the kids have childcare or plans of their own. Follow this list of things to do on a day off alone and bliss out…
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1. Have a lie in, or go back to bed
Start the day right, and make the most of your day off work without deadlines (till the kids come home).
If you’re able to go right back to sleep and enjoy a rare lie-in, go for it. If you’re wide awake and just want to chill in bed, grab a coffee and something to read and enjoy lazing around this morning.
2. Have a leisurely breakfast
There’s no need to rush around on your day off. Make yourself a delicious breakfast with your favourite things and eat it slowly. If you don’t have to be anywhere, take your time and savour every bite.
This is your chance to relax and have some ‘me’ time. Remember when you couldn’t even eat without the baby on your lap or hip?
Maybe you’ve already had a chaotic breakfast with the kids around earlier. This is the re-take, and you can enjoy your own breakfast in peace and quiet.
3. Move your body
Get moving. Just because you’re not working doesn’t mean you can’t get out and about. Take a walk in the park, go for a swim, or take a yoga class.
Getting your blood flowing will help you feel more energised and ready to tackle whatever comes your way. Plus, it’s a great way to clear your head and get some fresh air. Read more on the benefits of exercising outdoors.
4. Meditate
Whether you’re new to meditation or a regular practitioner, it’s nice to have some time to actually sit down and do this without fear of interruption.
Use the Headspace app to get started or if you want to learn more, read or listen to The Headspace Guide to Mindfulness & Meditation.
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5. Do something creative
Do something you enjoy and make it creative. This is your chance to do something just for you! It might be painting, drawing, making jewellery or even a puzzle.
Just make sure to spend some time doing something that brings you joy. Taking time to enjoy creativity will help you feel recharged and lift your spirit.
6. Read a book
Catch up on some reading that you’ve been meaning to do without distractions. During your busy working mamma life, you probably don’t have much time for reading anymore. But reading can be very relaxing.
Curl up with a good book and lose yourself in another world for a while. Maybe it’s time to check out a bestseller you’ve heard everyone talking about, or re-read a favourite of yours.
7. Get outside
Getting some fresh air and exercise is a great way to clear your head and feel energised. Maybe you have some lovely walks around you (or can travel to one). Or even use the time to get to know your local neighbourhood a bit better.
Take a walk in the park or go for a hike in the woods. Breathe in the fresh air and take in the beauty around you.
Perhaps this is your second time out if you were exercising earlier, but when do you get the luxury of two trips out by yourself in a day?
8. Get some odd jobs done
Whether it’s decluttering or organising some things around the house, many feel super good afterwards. Feeling more organised and in control can reduce stress and give you a feeling of accomplishment.
If you’re the sort of person that feels better for having a clear out, then go for it and see my decluttering post for more. Make sure you’ve allowed time to put your feet up after before your kid/s get home.
If this doesn’t sound like your idea of bliss, fair enough and move on to the next more relaxing idea!
9. Have a relaxing bath or spa session
Add some bubbles or aromatherapy oils to your bathtub and take some time out to relax and rejuvenate. Use some lovely products and create a home spa experience.
Put on a facemask and a leave-in conditioner on your hair. Play some relaxing music. This is your time.
Or if you can afford it, see the next suggestion.
10. Treat yourself to a spa day
Book yourself for a day at the spa. Get a massage, manicure, and pedicure or whatever treatment you will benefit from the most on your day off work.
Or just enjoy some time in the sauna or steam room. Relaxing your muscles will help reduce stress and anxiety.
11. Do a spot of gardening
Spend some time tending to your garden and enjoy the satisfaction of pruning, watering and getting your hands dirty.
No garden? Make the most of a window box or give your indoor plants some love. Gardening indoors or out has massive benefits as it’s relaxing and you need to give it your full attention.
12. Enjoy a nutritious lunch
Take the time to prepare yourself a decent lunch. Fuel your body with healthy, filling foods so you have the energy to make the most of your day off alone.
Or treat yourself to lunch at your favourite spot while out and about. This is about taking a meal slow again and really enjoying it.
13. Visit somewhere new
Explore your local area or venture further afield and discover somewhere new that you’ve never been before. Perhaps there is a market, food hall or tourist site that you’ve never had time before to visit.
14. Go to the movies
Treat yourself to an afternoon matinee at the cinema. This feels so indulgent when you have a day off alone to yourself and can sneak off to enjoy a mid afternoon movie.
Or if you don’t fancy going alone, see the next option…
15. Binge your favourite show
Set yourself up with popcorn and a blanket on the sofa. Watch your favourite show one after another or enjoy a good film or two.
This is a great way to escape reality for a while and just relax. No arguing over the TV today, it’s all yours.
16. Do a little writing
This might be in your journal or notebook. Don’t feel pressured to write well or write lots, just enjoy the process and see what happens.
If you struggled with the earlier creative suggestion, perhaps writing is more suited to you as an outlet.
17. Create a Spotify playlist
Take the time to create the best playlist you will ever need. Or a few playlists for different situations such as exercise, walking, cleaning, dancing.
You may spend more time on this than planned if you really get into it, but when else do you have the time?
18. Set yourself new goals
Don’t draw up a whole strategy or bucket list, but think about a few achievable goals you’d like to work towards while you have the headspace today.
See the post on setting new goals for more ideas on approaching this.
19. Visit a gallery or museum
This is a blissful thing to do without the kids! Visit a new or favourite museum or gallery and take your time to enjoy it.
Does this make your list of things to do on a day off alone? Slowly enjoying art may be a distant memory if you are a new and working sleep-deprived mum.
20. Take a nap
Sometimes the best way to recharge is just to sleep! Take a nap in the middle of the day if you need it. This may be on your priority of things to do on a day off alone at home.
If you aren’t keen to go to sleep, you can still lie down and rest or listen to music or a podcast.
21. Do very little
If you’re in need of a real break and recharge, you might not want to pack your day out today at all. This may be the most difficult thing for busy mums to do, but sometimes doing nothing is really what you need.
Turn off your phone, disconnect from social media, and just relax without doing anything productive. It’s ok to just veg out every once in awhile!
Conclusion: Things to do on a day off alone
Recharging is so important for busy mums who work from home. If you have a day off, take advantage of it. You might want to do a few things and make the most of it, or you may prefer to just lie around and do very little.
Relaxation is key to maintaining your sanity as a busy mum and privacy is a rare occurrence once your little darlings take over. This blissful list of things to do on a day off alone will leave you feel recharged and invigorated.
Following these tips will help ensure that you make the most of your day off and are left feeling refreshed and rejuvenated. So take some time for yourself, relax, and enjoy!
What are your favourite things to do on a day off alone at home with no work or kids around?
If it will be a while before you have a chance for another day to yourself, think about how you can go about finding me time in your daily or weekly schedule, even if it’s just five minutes a day.
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29 Comments
Ibrahim Ergun
I enjoy indulging in my favorite TV shows, practicing self-care, or organizing and planning various activities. I appreciate you sharing these ideas.
Zandra Castillo
I enjoy taking naps and spending time soaking in my hot tub outside.
Charlie-Elizabeth Nadeau
What great suggestions and a different take on being alone for a day. Love it! Usually if I have a day off instead of being alone and doing something for my self, I’ll reach out to people to I guess not be alone. I appreciated reading your reflection and finding fun things to do. It is important to be comfortable being with ourselves.
thecuriousdig
Completely. Sometimes a day off can leave you exhausted if you’re running around meeting people so it’s nice to have a day to recuperate by yourself.
Karalee
These are great suggestions for things to do on a day off. I definitely need to relax on my days off, so a spa day would be amazing. Also, I do enjoy sleeping in on the weekends and watching a movie on Netflix.
Simona
A hot bath is my choice whenever I want to stop for a minute and take some time off, with a good mask, a tea and some Netflix, utter bliss x
thecuriousdig
That’s the way to do it!
Stay Fit And Calm
Work hard and party harder 😄. Relaxation is must to energies. You have mentioned all points nicely. Thanks for sharing!!!
thecuriousdig
Thanks for commenting!
Sarah Collins
I like nothing more than pottering around at home on my own on day off….it’s bliss
Graham Crosby
Currently recovering from an operation and enjoying having lie ins, doing some leisurely reading and the odd nap! Lovely!
thecuriousdig
Yes, many of these work for recovery time at home too. Thanks for commenting!
Lauren
These are some good ideas to do in your day off. I like to watch my favourite tv shows, self care or I like to organise and plan things. Thank you for sharing.
Lauren
Mummy Conquering Anxiety
These are such great tips – I might just do the ‘go back to bed’ one in the morning!
Caroline
I always love to read books on my days off! Love these ideas 🙂
Coralle
Great ideas! I love being creative when I have days off and doing odd jobs as well.
Fern
A walk to a local coffee shop and a visit to a nature preserve are my ideal day off activity!
Emma T
I love having a day off. I usually try and see a friend or go out for the day somewhere my son wouldn’t enjoy, take some photos. Or if at home, I’d read, do jigsaws, eat what I wanted.
Lucy
These are such great ways to spend a day off alone! Having a lie-in to catch up on sleep is a good idea and also meditating x
Bell KS
Some great ideas there!! Will definitely try some
Fadima Mooneira
Yay!!! These are the things I like to do! The spa at home is a good idea. Thank you for sharing.
Debbie
You had me at spa day! Such a fun and comprehensive list of ideas to recharge on a day alone. Thanks for sharing!
thecuriousdig
Haha, got to love a spa day!
Emily
If only I had a day off to try these great ideas! Someday!
Rosie
Fantastic list! I would love to do all these. Taking down notes. And yes, I agree, I need relaxation to maintain my sanity, heh.
thecuriousdig
Definitely! Thank you.
Jenn
All of these sound like a perfect way to spend a day off – can’t wait until my next one! What a luxurious and restorative time!
thecuriousdig
Thanks for commenting!
marvette critney
I definitely do most of these every Monday on my day off.